Wednesday, 19 December 2007

Paying for sex = you are teh loser!!1


Who pays for sex? You'd be surprised


It's not so much this article that's worth a look, but the comments. Many men have pointed out that paying a prostitute for sex is easier (and often cheaper) than getting girlfriends or wives, which involves paying for the chance of sex.

Most amusing of all is the deranged shaming language from plenty of females, this one in particular:

no wonder why the rate rapes and stds are going up..

im sure non of these men care about getting aids or chylmedia, which is soon to hit a crisis level?

Perhaps men who have sex with call girls, should take a look at there personality...(or there .....INFECTED/ INCYwincy PENIS!!) ha.

cause clealy they cant hold down a girlfriend. Once you find you do want kid's you'll find your infertile from all that fucking around, ha ha ha.

oh yeh..im sure having sex with call girls, who work all hours, must be like screwing a cave.....

Personally i find sex is far more rewarding with a partner, who you love and trust, can experiment and have fun with.......

Men who use call girls must have such dull uninteresting lifes..........and need to make a few friends.....get out in the world


Heheh.

I remember in the old days, when I were a lad, and such shaming language would have touched me. Now it does nothing but amuse me.

There are plenty of harpies screaching on in the comments (and a few manginas/women pretending to be men) but this one gathers all the usual 'tactics' in one; accusations of not having a life, men who go to hookers have small penises, claims that prostitutes are all diseased (apart from the really grubby crack whores, I'd say they're probably cleaner than non-prostitutes; they're more likely to take - and insist on - precautions, given that pregnancy and std's threaten her earning power), claims that visiting prostitutes is a sign of not having a life and/or having no friends, and that basically men who use prostitutes/escorts girls/whatever they like to call themselves should basically bow their heads in shame and then channel all their efforts into wining and dining a demented fruitcake like her. All mixed in with an amusing lack of grammar and spelling.

It won't occur to these women that maybe acting a bit nicer and not using sex as a weapon in a relationship - and perhaps looking for Mr Right before turning 30 - would perhaps encourage a guy to seek her out. That would be too much effort. Instead, they just whine and moan and throw about the shaming language.

Most men, particularly young ones, will do what's required to get sex. Previously that used to be being a nice guy and getting married. Now it's either be a world-class 'playa', having a lot of money (or pretending you do) or just taking a short-cut and getting a good honest whore.

Nearly all women want to take early retirement or semi-retirement. I know of no single women working full-time past 30 who wouldn't give it up to be provided for by a husband, and even go-getting career gals fresh from University invariably talk of working either part-time or not at all after five or ten-years in the workforce. In order to avoid working full-time, they require a man. And all the woman has to offer these days is a shag. Or the chance of one.

If a man can get a shag from an escort girl far cheaper and with infinitely less hassle than spending a fortune dating and then throwing away his freedom and financial security to support a woman for life, then that's what he'll do. And that's what pisses these women off. Spinsterhood and full-time work beckons! And that's not what overgrown Princesses expect.

Women seeking Mr Right are infuriated at the idea of their monopoly on sex being broken by escort girls who are just flat-out honest about the whole deal and won't expect anything beyond what she charges upfront, so the shaming language is broken out. Then there's the other tactic of moaning that nearly all prostitutes are abused and enslaved and that paying for sex is basically on a par with being a rapist and accomplice to sex-trafficking (this is the view of the British Government, which is seeking harsher sentences for men who pay for sex. Not the women who sell it, obviously)

I don't doubt that some prostitutes are forced into it, but most choose the profession of their own free will; they may not enjoy it, but what the fuck, who does enjoy what they do for a living? (I once read that most prostitutes who are trafficked and enslaved in the sex trade and who are subsequently rescued are rescued either by - or thanks to tip-offs from - clients who are horrified to learn that the woman isn't consenting to her profession; contrary to what feminists say, the overwhelming majority of men would be horrified at the idea of being an accomplice - knowingly or otherwise - to sex-slavery and trafficking, and would only pay for sex on the assumption the woman is a willing participant in the deal. Making out men who use prostitutes are evil quasi-rapists is just another tactic women use to try to divert men back to the thorny path of, ugh, 'dating'.)

It's also worth bearing in mind that most women offer no more than a prostitute. Previously, a woman would run the home and bare and raise kids. Sex was important too, but the domestic and child-rearing front were a plus, and something a hooker couldn't provide. Then along came feminism, whereby women insisted they wouldn't be doing the babies and housework stuff, just the sex (although usually only until the honeymoon.) So if sex is all a girlfriend can really provide these days, then a girlfriend is really just on a par with a prostitute in terms of what she has to offer, only with the disadvantage of not giving you a quote upfront, or guarantee of service.

It's funny all these women insisting all these young men increasingly paying for sex are sad losers. After all, who is the more sad; men who spend their honest, hard-earned money on a jolly good shag with an honest, hard-working, big-titted twentysomething escort girl, or the aging thirtysomething career gals who decide the best way to try and land a husband is to not become less angry and bitter, but to become more so, and to angrily accuse any man who doesn't play by the absurd rules of 'romance' and 'dating' (which basically means worshipping a female unconditionally, ideally with money) as a dickless loser?

68 comments:

Uncharted Thoughts said...

If we are all such scummy perverted rapists like these feminists claim, shouldn't women be glad there are professionals who will gladly help relieve our evil urges for a small price?

That way us horrible men won't have the urge to bother them.

Sounds fair.

Anonymous said...

This reminds me of how women in this country (usa) call men losers if they want to find a foreign wife, yet they are very angry about men being albe to marry foreign women.
They even legislate against it !

Anonymous said...

"Nearly all women want to take early retirement or semi-retirement. I know of no single women working full-time past 30 who wouldn't give it up to be provided for by a husband, and even go-getting career gals fresh from University invariably talk of working either part-time or not at all after five or ten-years in the workforce. In order to avoid working full-time, they require a man. And all the woman has to offer these days is a shag. Or the chance of one."


There are very very few exceptions, but these are exceptions.
Many female students shamelessly say that they do not want to work, but they still study in their most fertile years. I wonder why?

Martin said...

It's why the lesbians in the Nu Labour Government oppose the legalisation of prostitution. They know that the marriage rates would plumet and how would their little darling "sistas" get money if they can't get married and then divorced?

Outcast Superstar said...

I agree that paid sex with escorts is the way to go or in place like Germany would be FKK clubs or in Brazil it would be Termas.

I recently did a blog entry which I think you will find entertaining, its comparing American Women to Filapino Bar Girls.

I will let you and the other readers determine who is more desirable.

http://outcastsuperstar.blogspot.com/2007/12/say-hello-to-your-future-wives.html

VoodooJock said...

Several British periodicals have lionized women who fly to foreign locales so they can shack up with young men. They buy these young men gifts. This, is prostitution as well.

Second, women who are employed in the call-girl trade have more of an incentive to remain disease free than the average woman at the bar. Venereal disease is bad for business, and in certain locales where prostitution is legal, you have to pass a monthly VD check before you're permitted to work. If you're seeking a prostitute from a legal establishment or a high-end place, you're probably less likely to get a disease than you would the normal bar skank, who does have an incentive to keep VD infections quiet, not to mention does not undergo examinations as frequently or rigorously.

Anonymous said...

What can one add to what has already been said here? Women are threatened these days because men are increasingly seeking other options for their sexual outlets than traditional marriage. In typical female fashion, women keep blaming men for the problem, rather than admit that their foul attitude is the reason that fewer and fewer men are willing to stick their heads in the matrimonial noose.

I'd like to have a Mercedes, but due to the cost of purchasing such a car and maintaining it, I will content myself with watching them pass me by while some other poor sod picks up the bill. Women are pricing themselves out of the market, and are too stupid to see what they've lost.

Here in the U.S., we stand a pretty good chance of seeing Hillary elected president, and if she is, we will see a level of persecution against men in the divorce courts we have NEVER seen before. Hillary will 'man' countless cabinet posts and federal judge positions with fire-breathing dykes, and the laws that will pass regarding "violence against women (VAWA) and child-support will be shocking in their effect on men's rights. MAYBE then, more men will wake up, and refuse to deal with women. Maybe, and I'm dreaming, women will get so frustrated with a lack of men, that they will turn their backs on feminism.....

Nah. Obviously I'm delirious. Women never change for the better.

Never.

Curiepoint said...

"Many female students shamelessly say that they do not want to work, but they still study in their most fertile years. I wonder why?
"

It's still the best way for them to be awarded an MRS degree.

Uzem & Luzem said...

With each passing day, cunts give us more and more reasons to either just use them as fuck toys or to ignore them completely.

Their downward spiral continues unabated.

Hmh said...

I just have to repeat these two paragraphs:

"It won't occur to these women that maybe acting a bit nicer and not using sex as a weapon in a relationship - and perhaps looking for Mr Right before turning 30 - would perhaps encourage a guy to seek her out. That would be too much effort. Instead, they just whine and moan and throw about the shaming language.

Most men, particularly young ones, will do what's required to get sex. Previously that used to be being a nice guy and getting married. Now it's either be a world-class 'playa', having a lot of money (or pretending you do) or just taking a short-cut and getting a good honest whore."

These may just be the two finest and most brutally honest paragraphs I've ever read about dysfunctional relationships in the 21st century.

If only it wasn't true...

If there are any women out there listening:

I can't score. There. I admit it. I have NEVER pulled. Trust me, it's not for want of trying, except in three ways - I won't lie to them, I won't put an act on for them, and I won't talk myself up to be better than I am. No bullshit. What you see really is what you get ladies... and apparently it ain't good enough, because on the handful of blind dates I've been on, I've walked into the room and the girl has looked at me and just gone NOPE within two seconds. Literally two seconds. How the hell does an above-average looking, responsible, honest guy work around this??

More to the point: why bother anymore?

Oh, I forgot: I did pick up, once. I spent the night with a woman I'd met at a party. Thank heavens I didn't get to actually shag her, it turned out that she had
a) inverted nipples
b) religion, the no contraception kind, and
c) four kids already.

A guy I vaguely knew shagged her about three months later, she got pregnant, and when I saw him he looked like the sickest, most trapped animal I'd ever seen. I was put off picking up for life, right there.

I have managed to have a fair bit of sex, but only inside relationships after the girl and I had spent enough casual time together in groups of friends that we had a proper idea of each other's characters. This is how people used to meet and marry but it's getting harder to do now in a compartmented world.

The one that really gets me though is the comment from some chick near the end, something along the lines of "Eeuggh, I'm surrounded by guys who MIGHT have paid and rooted a prostitute!! How GROSS! I'm going to be celibate for the rest of my life!"

Thanks lady. Any excuse to not give a guy a chance, isn't it?

Seb from Sydney, Australia. said...

Firstly, another great post Duncan, once again you have written some very sage comments about men who pay hookers for sex.

What I find totally hypocritical from women is that they demonise (use shaming language), on men who pay for sex, but in reality they are far worse than prostitutes. Basically, if you don't wine and dine (fraudulently known as dating these days), and spend money on women, they will refuse to give sex (what do you call that??).

At least with hookers they are 100% honest and upfront about their intentions, unlike most modern women these days.

And what's a guy supposed to do??

As we we are all aware most women today simply are not interested in decent hardworking men (aka nice guys). Most women today are truly only interested in 5% of men, they are: bad boys, thugs and players,studs and sugar daddies. The rest of us guys have to climb a 30,000ft high mountain of bullshit (eg.mind games, prick teasing etc), for the off chance we might get "lucky" with a woman. Why bother??

Me personally, I'll take the hooker option, no mind games,no prick teasing, no bullshit, just 100% quality guaranteed sex.

Anonymous said...

http://www.etsy.com/view_listing.php?listing_id=8519597

Fork and knife.

Anonymous said...

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Esther_Vilar

Very good book.

Anonymous said...

Women expect a diamondring for marrigae, now they want presents when they have given birth.
http://parenting.ivillage.com/newborn/nmomcare/0,,9v3xm6xb,00.html
If men thought they were done with their lavish jewelry-showering obligations once they popped the question and planted an engagement ring on a woman's finger, they're in for more of a shock than dirty diapers when their babies are born. If they want to walk out of that delivery room a proud papa, they'll need to offer up a "push present."



It is not enough to nourish the wife anymore.

Anonymous said...

"My husband does not believe in jewelry, so I saw it as the perfect opportunity to cash in on the whole societal pressure thing," laughed Seattle mom Julie Leitner, 32, who got a white gold and diamond bracelet in the $800-$1,500 price range when her daughter was born.

Push presents, which are usually jewelry but don't have to be, have gained popularity in the last few years. Once one new mother gets such a gift, her friends embrace the trend and pass the word on to their hubbies.

"I'd been told by so many people that you're supposed to get one that I just assumed it was the norm," said Leitner.

But many men are clueless about the concept. Some aren't even very involved in buying the actual present.

"I wouldn't necessarily say the gift was from me," said Bruce Owen, 35, of Oakland, Calif. "[My wife] picked it out. She bought it. It was more as if I didn't have a choice."

Owen said he didn't mind saying yes to the "baby bauble" -- a pair of diamond-cluster earrings that cost a couple of thousand dollars -- when his 2 1/2-year-old daughter was born.

"I recognized the incredible sacrifice and difficulty of carrying a baby for nine months," said the real estate professional.


http://www.foxnews.com/story/0,2933,99962,00.html


Poor man with money grabbing woman.

If having children is so difficult, why is she having them? maybe she should work in the cozy mining industry.

1000$ for glitter, now that is dumb.

Anonymous said...

“I was on cloud nine,” Ms. Slosberg said. “It was the perfect present to make a frazzled, sleep-deprived, first-time mommy feel absolutely glamorous.”

She added, “I wonder what 17 hours of labor will get me next time?”

In a more innocent age, new mothers generally considered their babies to be the greatest gift imaginable. Today, they are likely to want some sort of tangible bonus as well.

This bonus goes by various names. Some call it the “baby mama gift.” Others refer to it as the “baby bauble.” But it’s most popularly known as the “push present.”

That’s “push” as in, “I the mother, having been through the wringer and pushed out this blessed event, hereby claim my reward.” Or “push” as in, “I’ve delivered something special and now I’m pushing you, my husband/boyfriend, to follow suit.”

“It’s more and more an expectation of moms these days that they deserve something for bearing the burden for nine months, getting sick, ruining their body,” said Linda Murray, executive editor of BabyCenter.com. “The guilt really gets piled on.”

http://www.nytimes.com/2007/12/06/fashion/06push.html


Imagine: women ruin their bodies by being pregnant so they expect jewelry.

First it is not true they are ruining their bodies, pregnancy is quite healthy and keeps breast cancer away. Second it was their own choice. Third women ruin their bodies with alcohol, smoke and abortions much more. Fourth men ruin their bodies during work and do not expect jewelry.



Mememememememememememememememe is the new mantra of modern women.

And read: next time the wife expects a bigger present.

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=z6OKuzkUWho

Sense of entitlement by Marc Rudov.

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TJ8p_B5I20s&feature=related
Women threatening men in commercial. If you do not offer presents...
Entitlement.


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XFPXHskY3DY&NR=1
Canadian who pays child support more than he can pay, despite he is the one who keeps the children physically! In reality it is him who should get child support!
He loses his house and gets broke.

She gets half his military pension because it is argued she contibuted to it. She gets remarried and still gets child support, still his children are with him.

He served in the canadian army one of the most courageous armies in the world.


DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
DO NOT MARRY!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Anonymous said...

Disgusting commercial, watch it, I have seen many things but this goes very very far. In this commercial the men are actually killed (you cannot survive such injuries).

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1JS01WUKLT4

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=m_piUKGPAg0&feature=related

Man in barrel.

Do not marry and have fun with games and women.

Anonymous said...

Spelling error, Duncan. The phrase is "bear and raise children", not bare and raise children.

Just curious: have you ever had sex with a prostitute? If yes, do you continue to do so?

You have mentioned pleasuring yourself repeatedly and you don't seem to have a girlfriend, so I was wondering if you are truly celibate. You are in your early thirties, so I would think that onanism would not be able to quell your need for sex entirely.

Davout said...

As a man, I'm against paying for sex with women --not because of some faux "see-my-sensitive-PC-halo" empathy, but because I find it demeaning to me *as a man*. For me to respect any woman, she has to earn it--I don't give it out automatically, and I don't try to buy her favour with drinks, gifts, or direct cash payments. When the pickings are slim, I prefer celibacy to lowering my standards to be with women with crap attitudes/crap skills (non-prostitutes), or women who think they deserve payment.
While I'm not threatened by the prospect of outlawing female prostitution, there is no way that I will stand for *men* being deprived of women's compensation when we service them with our superior skills.


Don R Kebab, Polvovilla,



Hahahahahaaaaaaaaaa! er um hahahaaa!

Anonymous said...

Worth looking: these relatively good looking women are trying to steal the car of an ex-husband.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0iaC_53zgwA&feature=related

I imagine that these women could easily be cute looking.

Anonymous said...

@hmh

"religion, the no contraception kind, and"

My wife, too, shall not use contraceptives. She shall have 20 children. I would love to marry a virgin 16 year old with whom to have 20 children.

She should sew a lot, never shop, cook and bake a lot. That would be great.

This woman is unfaithful.

Anonymous said...

Divorce videos on youtube.

Hulk Hogans Wife Wants EVERYTHING in Divorce
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NCb_1Xol9I

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9rA4xkjAME
I want a divorce, my wife constantly beats me! (2 of 2)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoDI8l7b58o
I want a divorce, my wife constantly beats me! (1 of 2)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPYfJKPUNOk&feature=related

Crazy Aussie don't take no sh*t of his wife, who wants a divorce and demands the kids, car, house etc.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjVshP6C_Xo

Anonymous said...

Divorce videos on youtube.


Look at the stare of Hulk Hogan. Such a strong man completely defenseless in front of his screaming wife who could be so happy.

It is the dazzled stare of every man facing a mad wife.

Hulk Hogans Wife Wants EVERYTHING in Divorce
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0NCb_1Xol9I

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9rA4xkjAME
I want a divorce, my wife constantly beats me! (2 of 2)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=eoDI8l7b58o
I want a divorce, my wife constantly beats me! (1 of 2)
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=MPYfJKPUNOk&feature=related

Crazy Aussie don't take no sh*t of his wife, who wants a divorce and demands the kids, car, house etc.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjVshP6C_Xo

Anonymous said...

Excuse me, I am repetitive.

Look at this woman: who looks more believable. Listen to her screeching voice.
She claims to be battered and screams constantly on the show - that does not look like a battered woman. She approaches him threatening.

He is calm, even when the step-daughter comes screeching and nearly assaults him.

They dare even not respecting the moderator of the show. They act so agressively and claim he is bullying them.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h9rA4xkjAME


I have seen so many times, now, it seems to be part of their psych.


Do not marry, this is the result.


Marriage is serious business, choose your wives wisely and today do not marry at all.



PLEASE WATCH THIS!

Anonymous said...

Very good movie exactly on point:

Wife: "Your friend is much better lover than you, I want a divorce, the kids, the credit cards, the house, the checking account. What do you want?"

Husband: "Nothing, I got the airbag!"

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rjVshP6C_Xo

Anonymous said...

Consumer advocates would shrike if businesses made the rules for consumers as the rules are for husbands during divorce and marriage.

It is a bad deal to "buy" a marriage.

Anonymous said...

Don't Marry. Don't give women your sperm. Don't give women your money. Don't live with them. Use them for sex and then drop them like they deserve to be treated. It's the only way to kill off these disgusting women in the western world and stop the spread to the eastern world. They deserve NOTHING from men. Let them all die off alone with themselves.

Anonymous said...

Also, those harpies should realise that there are many of us men out there who actually are *gasp* decent enough to not seek out prostitutes (an occasional wank to tame the libido will do nicely, thank you). We honestly don't mind being celibate for life.

Still, we wouldn't touch the overused, over-the-hill career skanks with a ten-foot pole. Hell, we wouldn't even do it even if they PAID us. That includes donating our DNA indirectly (i.e sperm donation). Want your own kids? Make your own bloody sperm.

All women are essentially prostitutes. Just that those who are still unspoiled by feminism (eg. the older generation) still have redeeming qualities: nuturing, selflessness, domesticated. This makes them MORE than a prostitute - makes them someone whom you want to be a mother to your children. The sex for money was well worth it - real commitment, well worth the investment.

Now, the feminazi bitches are nothing more than prostitutes. Oh wait, nope... WORSE than the professional prostitutes. At least the professional prostitute is more honest about the upfront payment and won't emotionally manipulate you. It's just business as usual.

Anonymous said...

Tried to leave a comment on the article, but of course didn't appear.

While I find the idea of going to a prostitute demeaning for me, I think that outlawing it would be bad for both client and pro.

The comments from the women were predictable of course, but what I wanted to ask them was- would they have the same attitude towards the women who go on sex holidays in N.Africa? Would they come out with shaming language for these aging harpies? Probably not.

Wobs.

Anonymous said...

http://www.papa.com/erste_hilfe/ehe/e100000.htm

The website shows how much is left of 50.000€ for a single or a married man.

Marriage is not worth it anymore. It is a one sided contract, the disadvantages arre much too big.

Anonymous said...

When you married a woman in former times, she might nagg, but at least she would cook, sew and not divorce you. Today all this is missing.

Anonymous said...

"They are afraid to be seen expressing thought because they are sexually insecure," Dr Spurr said. "They want to be seen to be real men and the standard for real men wouldn't be seen to express a thought.
http://www.freerepublic.com/focus/f-news/1554465/posts


Remember: if you do not say a lot of stupid things you are sexually insecure!

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6F_fGwGONo0

Obese wife with child: do you really want such a wife?

Anonymous said...

http://sugardaddie.com/LPlocationNEW.php?gclid=CN_nqtGOupACFSEmEgod6zxjMw

Dating for rich men and beautiful women - rebirth of old philosophies - golddigging in perfection.


I thought women wished to have a career themselves? Am I mistaken?

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=bHZfUy-ttkI

These crazy people argue that Jamie Lynn should abort.

One 21 year old says she would have aborted at 16 and even at 21.

These women throw away theri most fertile years.
She will wait till 30 and then realise that no man wants her anymore.

If they have sex they should be responsible.


One man (!) says she sould abort because of overpopulation and global warming.


The people are crazy these days.

Anonymous said...

I think it is perfectly acceptable to use Western women as prostitues only. Then, if and when you want to marry and raise a family, find one in a non-Western country.
This is certainly the most logical thing to do.
Anarchiste

Hmh said...

Anon 16:21 - Mate, I have to disagree with you here. This woman was apparently OK but in reality was the usual messed-up nightmare. Four kids, sure. By the same father? I honestly don't know and given that her man had either taken off or been pushed out, I think it's a given that this woman was not great wife material.

As a further general comment - I think a lot of modern women are actually quite vicious. It's not that they get angry easily; it's that they'll attack you the instant they get an opening. Verbally, emotionally, whatever.

As a further comment, I went for a walk downtown today and started noticing a pattern in couples. Duncan's right - western men are going for foreign women in droves, while the white western women left behind mostly refuse to date outside either their race or their culture. They all seem to see it as impossible to compete with foreign women, so they blame the women and (of course) blame all the local guys as well. Then they just get angrier and have another comfort meal.

Why are they so unable to handle reality?

Hmh said...

Just had a think and I thought I'd pop this on, while it was still fresh in my mind:

I think I've got a partial explanation for why modern women are such a mess: TV.

They're nearly all hopeless telly addicts.

I've known a grand total of TWO women in my life who either lived away from it or consciously chose to minimise their viewing. Both are great women, fantastic to be with, physically and mentally healthy, the whole lot. Shame they're both taken.

Everyone else, though... Thinking about it, there's damn good reason that most programming and most ads are aimed at women. They're most of the audience. And what the adverts and the programmes are telling these women is of course what they want to hear... in short, one fantasy after another.

What would make it so destructive is the amount of time that women spend watching the damn thing. 3 hours, plus, per day on average wouldn't be unusual. What would this do to the female mind if most of their actual engagement time is spent paying attention to dreams, then?

It'd certainly explain why they're getting so insanely picky. They're comparing the real world to what they are taught by the TV, and the real world is constantly falling short. So are real people dealing with them.

A few years ago I decided to switch the idiot box off, permanently. It was hard at first to get off the thing, but I wouldn't go back now. The interesting thing about it is that my brain now interperets reality differently; I see something close to what's actually there, instead of what the TV has taught me to look for.

Just my thought. Chaps?

Anonymous said...

http://eternalbachelor.wordpress.com/2007/06/29/scary-story/

Duncan, how did the story of this man continue?

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=lOGUUSnD_80&feature=related

Whore Hunters The Unofficial Documentary

Hilarious!

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AdzAwJ5uPaw&feature=related

modern mothers living on crack.

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-xp0LewhI8

"The Nice Guy" (Complete Version)

"The nice guys are somebody you want in the future" says a girl.


Here we have it out of a womans mouth: the sucker comes to rescue her, when she is old.

Anonymous said...

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=S-xp0LewhI8

"The Nice Guy" (Complete Version)

"The nice guys are somebody you want in the future" says a girl.


Here we have it out of a womans mouth: the sucker comes to rescue her, when she is old.


The bad guy is a challenge and is exciting they say.

These women make a mistake: when they are old, men will not run after them.

Anonymous said...

Out of sheer necessity, the name of the game these days is to control your assets and not to own them. This includes the house, car(s), and bank account. So when your wife demands half of everything you OWN, just bust out the wallet and give her half of whatever cash is there. Imagine the shock on her face when you say you are penniless.

Duncan Idaho said...

hmh, I think you have a great point.

Most women these days do seem to watch a shocking amount of TV, and it's a vicious circle; more women do nothing but watch TV, so programmes and adverts do nothing but cater to women's egos and inadvertently inflate their expections.

Just as an example, I watched a soap opera episode last year (against my will!) It involved some saggy old single-mother who had been in loads of abusive relationships trying to overcome depression by learning to accept the flirtations of a handsome doctor trying to win her hand in marriage. This doctor was taking her to posh restaurants and whispering sweet nothings at her.

It was stupid in the extreme.

Of course, it could be pointed out, correctly, that this was "just a TV programme", but to many women it's a representation of real life. Or rather, what they like to think real life is like.

In other words, women watch this fucking shit and then go out into the real world and think that there are loads of handsome rich doctors around who are eager to marry saggy-breasted old single mothers with a ton of emotional baggage.

When women find out that the number of men who live up to their absurdly high and sickly expectations are very limited, and furthermore these guys are just fucking and chucking dumb Western Whores before buggering off to Singapore to marry Asian ladies, Western Women get all annoyed and declare the world to be sexist and horrible, and denounce us men as small-cocked gays who are intimidated by Strong Women (TM).

And then women tune in to daytime talk shows to justify and exclaim their disgust and hatred of men. Or they do the academic equivalent of watching daytime TV and sign up to Women's Studies at the local Cunt College.

TV sucks.

(Except for Top Gear.)

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Anonymous said...

Duncan there is a lady in my home state of Florida who was on the bachelor show some time ago who is a 33 year old never been married female doctor. She made a complete ass of herself but also showed unto the world what spoiled rotten little children todays strong empowered cunts are. I had posted links to it and outcastsuperstar had posted it some time ago. Worth a watch and a comment or two from you.

Anonymous said...

cause clealy they cant hold down a girlfriend. Once you find you do want kid's you'll find your infertile from all that fucking around, ha ha ha.

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Considering what a bunch of cum dumpsters modern women have become this is a clear case of pot trying to call the kettle black. Infertile from all that fucking around? How about infertile from being a leg spreading cum dumpster.

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oh yeh..im sure having sex with call girls, who work all hours, must be like screwing a cave.....

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Again, considering the fact empowered women brag about having multiple sex parteners, how tight could this woman be? She's obviously not a virgin as is.

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Personally i find sex is far more rewarding with a partner, who you love and trust, can experiment and have fun with.......

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And how many dozens of players screwed you? 12, 2 dozen, 3 dozen, 4 dozen or more? Was it good? Is it now like throwing a hotdog down a hallway?
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Men who use call girls must have such dull uninteresting lifes..........and need to make a few friends.....get out in the world

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Men who use call girls are just skipping the formalities of screwing a harpie with high expectations that her used up vagina is actually worth marrying.

Anonymous said...

Duncan, please destroy this article.

"Why men are so useless at buying Christmas gifts".

Who would have thought that the article would be a terrible pile of horseshit from the title.

http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=504318&in_page_id=1879

Anonymous said...

I think many men go and see whores because they realise that "relationships" are a fucking pain in the ass, and usually, an emotional arse-rape of an experience.

Man pays, man scores, man goes home. Hurrah.

Batbitch said...

Shit was I ever raised differently. Speaking to your hostile female readership: Never use sex as a bargaining chip. You married the man, you want to keep him from going elsewhere, then keep him satisfied at home. In other words ladies, shut the fuck up and swallow!

I think that sums it up.

Faustus said...

It should surprise no one that this comment in fact was left from someone residing in Madrid, Spain:


"If you end up marrying this woman, it is even worse: you end up with a old fat nagging wife who you only have sex with occassionally (while you are spending money on things she wants to buy all the time). And if your wife decides to divorce you, you lose your children, your house, your assets and you have to pay a woman who has destroy your life (while she ends up laughing on the way to the bank)."

"I have forgotten: all this process of destruction of men is called "lerv". When your ex-wife is on the divorce court, you can feel all the "lerv" she feels for you and all the "emotional connection" you both have."


Sound a wee bit familiar?

It seems we can render all of Europe to be affected with the fem virus as of late. No land mass on earth would escape this shit forever.

jon said...

Great advice in this one. Lesbianism is okay for a 14 year old, and being a mangina househusband is just fine!

http://tinyurl.com/28yhmb

"DEAR MARGO: I was checking out my 12-year-old daughter's MySpace (she knows I do this as a condition of her having it) and found my 14-year-old niece's MySpace (that my brother and sister-in-law do not know she has), where she alluded to having a "relationship" with a lesbian friend. The last time we spoke, my sister-in-law said she was wary of this girl, so I don't know whether I should tell her what I found. They live several states away, and we only see each other a few times a year. Their daughter is a good kid, and I don't want to cause problems, especially if my niece learns how her parents found out.

If it were my daughter, I'd want to know so I could at least talk to her about it. This kid is barely 14 years old.

--- WAVERING AUNTIE

DEAR WAVE: I suggest you say nothing. Assuming the "relationship" is sexual (and it may not be), the youngster is experimenting and should be allowed to do so without parental input -- which would not change the outcome, by the way.

It's not as though your niece is robbing banks and popping Quaaludes, dangerous behavior requiring intervention. She is figuring out her sexuality, and parents trying to steer a child away from a natural inclination are not going to be successful.

When next you talk to your s-i-l, you might ask what she dislikes about this friend, since she told you she is wary of her. If there are complaints about the girl that are valid, they should be the reason to put the kibosh on the friendship, not that she is a lesbian.

--- MARGO, JUDICIOUSLY

Voices From the Peanut Gallery

DEAR MARGO: I am in my early 20s but always seemed older. I graduated high school very early, went to college and, before I was old enough to vote, took on more responsibilities than people twice my age.

The reason I'm writing is because I am engaged to a man I love and who makes me happy. My problem is not with him, but with the people around us who view our relationship as doomed. The reason? He does not work but stays home and takes care of the house. He also doesn't have as much education as I do, but is smart in his own right.

People keep telling me it is wrong for me to be working hard while he is at home "doing nothing," and that I should be home raising a family. How can I tell them to back off without losing them as friends? I've tried to defend our relationship, stating that if the roles were reversed, no one would say a word. I'm worried that all this stress is not doing me any good.

--- MELINDA

DEAR MEL: Guess what? You don't have to defend anything. This is a choice the two of you have made, and it works for you. The designation "househusband" is becoming much more common than it used to be.

To close down the "friends" who are offering unasked-for opinions, mention that the former head of Hewlett-Packard, Carly Fiorina, could only have had her career because her husband chose to be a househusband. There are countless other women who are very happy with this arrangement. Cooking, cleaning and looking after children are very satisfying to some men, just as these same activities do not thrill some women.

Gender roles are changing rapidly, though your friends seem to be unaware of this. Tune out the Greek chorus and learn not to care so much about what is coming at you from others. If you're feeling really feisty, you might respond by saying you don't recall asking them what they thought of the way you're living your life.

--- MARGO, ALTERNATIVELY"

og gangsta said...

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Anonymous said...

http://tinyurl.com/2eggb2

"He has no idea she's miserable. Or that she has slept with another man.

He doesn’t read.

It’s not that he isn’t smart. He is, but he’s not educated, and he’s not curious. He wants to talk about how we’re adding on to the house, and all the decisions that go along with that, and, “When we retire, do you want to buy a Winnebago?” I want to talk about global warming. It’s about conversation and—I hate to say it—intellect. Our conversations about anything are pretty short.

He’s a very good husband in terms of sharing household responsibilities. He does laundry, he helps cook, he’ll do all the normal, manly outdoor chores. He’s a loving dad. We don’t argue. He’s someone I truly admire and think of as a wonderful person, but I don’t think we are right for each other.

We’ve been married for seven years. If I’m truthful, I had some doubts when we were dating. Then a close friend of mine died. That trauma made me question what I wanted in life, and this man cared for me and adored me. I was going for something I thought was good for me. He’s offered me stability, both emotionally and practically, in buying a house and having money. Now I feel stable but uncreative.

I want him to have his own life, to be interested in things outside of me and our child. He has a few interests, and he’s trying to develop them, but he doesn’t have a lot of friends, so he’s needy and dependent. He says, “If you’re happy, then I will be happy.” There’s a weird pressure in that statement. It’s selfish: I have to be happy so that he can be happy. It doesn’t matter if I’m happy for me.

And, okay, can I tell you this? We haven’t kissed in a long time, other than just a peck on the lips: “See you tonight.” When we physically do the deed, it takes care of the basic needs, but I don’t feel passionate about it. It’s that lack of creativity and imagination. If I found him to be a stimulating person, perhaps I could kindle more passion.

This idea of leaving him has been in my head for a couple of years. There was no event between the two of us. I think it started with me. I worry that he’d be so angry that he’d somehow try to keep me from my child. But I am naively hopeful that this would be amicable. I am concerned about money, but we’ve worked really hard to be in this place with our finances. I have these weird thoughts, like, We’ve hired an architect, and in April, we’re supposed to start adding on to the house. If something’s going to change, I don’t want to be in the middle of that process, spending all that money.

And then, just recently, I had an affair.

The man was someone I had met and known and been attracted to. He’s smart in ways my husband isn’t. I’d never thought about acting on those feelings, but I was away from home and a big group of us went out for cocktails. I had the chance and a few drinks. I was curious. I wanted to know, If I slept with someone else, would it be a big deal?

It was the best f--king sex I’ve had in years. This man touched me in places I never let my husband touch me anymore. It was sweaty and passionate and awesome. It wasn’t just the sex; it was that the person I was with, I wanted to be with. The experience has made me feel like perhaps there are other people in the world I would be compatible with. But I would leave my husband for myself, not for another man.

And yet I don’t know if it has pushed me toward one decision or another. I’m back in my normal life, where I don’t know how to broach the subject of “Are we happy?” I need to find a way to tell him I’m not happy and ask if he’s willing to try some counseling. But I feel like I already know. I would hope having a counselor sitting there would make it easier for me to say, “This just isn’t working for me. And I’m leaving.”"

Anonymous said...

Blame da men!


http://markymarksthoughts.blogspot.com/

16 December 2007
THIS Is How the Typical American Woman Thinks & Acts...
Folks,

I was reading a post on Mancoat earlier, and Monkey Junk posted this. Guys, if you live with or marry an American woman, THIS is what you're signing up for. Think with the big head, not the little one, please...

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I was sitting down at a bar last night to listen to one of my friends go on about his girlfriend. I just let him rant and finally when it was done, we listed out things which we found we couldn't stand with American females, and from that conversation came this little story. I found it to be quite therapeutic to write, and I hope some of you will get a good laugh from it.

HEAD-THROUGH-THE-DOOR INSANITY

Imagine a house where a man and woman are living together (as husband & wife, boyfriend & girlfriend, whatever). Inside this house is a room with a large, wooden door leading to the kitchen. The door is locked, and the man finds the woman standing in front of it.

Woman: “Honey, I want to put my head through this door.”

The man is perplexed. He blinks his eyes, gets a confused look on his face. “Uh, what?”

Woman: “I want to put my head through his door. I really think I should.”

Man: “Why on earth would you want to do that?”

Woman: “Well, Asha and Shayna said that they’ve put their heads through doors and it felt wonderful. And all the girls at work always ask me when I’m going to put my head through a door, and they all tease me about it because I haven’t done it yet.”

Man: “Honey, what are you talking about? At the very least you’ll break your nose!”

Woman shoots him a mean look: “Oh come on, you don’t know that’s going to happen!”

Man: “The hell I don’t! Look at this thing,” he knocks on the door, “It’s solid oak. You couldn’t put your head through this door. You’ll knock yourself out first, maybe even do damage to your neck too.”

Woman: “You don’t know that! You’ve never put your head through a door, so how can you know that?”

Man: “For chrissakes, I don’t have to put my head through the door to know I’ll probably break my face!”

Woman: “But Asha and Shayna—“

Man: “What the hell do Asha and Shayna have to do with this?!”

Woman: “They’re my friends! And they said I should put my head through this door. They laugh at me every time I talk to them and I tell them I haven’t done it yet!” She gets a pouty look on her face, “I don’t want to be teased about it anymore! I need to put my head through this door!”

Man: “Honey, you’re starting to scare me. Who cares what they think about you? You think I care what other people want me to do?”

Woman: “Oh what?! So you don’t think it’s important to dress nice for other people and look nice when we go out?”

Man: “Dressing up nice isn’t the same thing. It’s—“

Woman: “It’s the same thing! You dress up nice whenever we go to restaurants. So that means it’s important to you what other people think! That’s why I have my shoe collection and tons of clothes! I have to look good to people.”

Man: “Jesus, honey, it’s not the same thing! How can your friends ask you—“

Woman: “But Asha and Shayna—“

Man: “Look, fuck Asha and Shayna. They don’t—“

Woman: “What did you just say?!” Woman growls, “I don’t tell your friends to fuck off! I let your friends come into my house and put their feet on my coffee table and drink beer and put up with you guys when you go crazy watching a football game! Don’t you tell me to disown my best friends!”

Man: “I was only trying to say—“

Woman: “Don’t you dare talk bad about my sistas! You have tons of friends. I barely have any friends at all.”

Man: “And what does that have anything to do with putting your head through a door?”

Woman: “I can’t believe you just want me to be miserable…”

Man: “It’s not about being miserable! Why are you talking like this? Look, we’ve got this nice house here, we’ve got heat and lights and food in the fridge. If you put your head through this door, I’ll have to take you to the hospital, and on top of all of our bills, we’ll have to pay for them to fix your nose, maybe even surgery if you get injured that severe. Do you really want to put us in more debt because of something like this?”

Woman: “We’ll always been in debt, honey. It’s just the way things are.”

Man: “Oh, don’t start that shit. You think that because you believe that we’ll always been in debt, that it gives you an excuse to put us in even more debt? You chose to put yourself in debt, hon. You chose to max out all of your credit cards. It cost us a fortune to pay them off just so that you wouldn’t be wasting hundreds of dollars a month in interest.”

Woman begins to shed tears: “You said you’d never bring that up again! How do you think that makes me feel?!”

Man: “Honey, we’ve been over this before. I’m not saying you were stupid—“

Woman gets a scowl on her face: “I know that’s what you think.”

Man: “Hon, I’ve never thought that in my life! You are not stupid. I just don’t understand what the hell this obsession is with putting your head through a door. It’s just going to end up costing us money, and you’ll be in pain for a week. Just don’t do it, okay?”

Woman: “How dare you tell me what to do! I’m not some ‘50s housewife! I’m not your slave!”

Man: “What? Where did that come from!”

Woman: “You never listen to me! I always have to do what you want!”

Man (groans): “Look, it’s really simple: if you try to put your head through this massively solid oak door, you’ll end up getting hurt. We’ll end up having to pay for the hospital bill and pain medication. Can you please just promise me you won’t do this? Please?”

Woman: “I promise.” (she sniffs away more tears and dries her eyes).

Man: “Okay, good. I’m going to go into the garage for a minute. I have to take the garbage out. I’ll be right back.”

The man turns around and walks towards the garage. Suddenly from behind him there is a massive THUMP sound, kind of like the sound of a forehead thudding on hard oak. He whirls around to see the woman collapsing to the floor, unconscious. He rushes over to her, her eyes whirling, blood gushing from her nose.

Man: “Honey, what did you do?!”

Woman: “WAAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!!”

Man: “Oh my god! Why did you do that?! You’re bleeding all over the place! We need to get you to the emergency room!”

Woman (holding her nose in both hands): “WAAAAAAAAAAAAA!!!”

Later on, the man and woman are driving home from the hospital. The woman is in the passenger seat, her nose bandaged up with white gause and a bridge to help keep in immoble. She stares out the window.

Man: “Well, at least the doctor said it was only a fracture. You should heal up in no time.”

Woman doesn’t say anything. She just looks away from him.

Man: “You know, if you would have just listened to me—“

Woman: “Don’t you fucking start with me right now, I am not in the mood for it.”

They drive in silence for a time.

Man: “Did the doctor say what kind of pain medication he was going to give you?”

Still silence. Finally, he looks over and watches as she digs through her purse. She pulls out a folded piece of paper. “Here,” she says, tossing it into his lap, “that’s yours.”

Man: “What’s this?”

Woman: “The bill. You’ll have to pay it in 30 days.”

Man opens it up and tries to read while driving. “Holy fuck, $600?! Why the fuck should I pay for it?!”

Woman: “Because,” and then she screams, “YOU DIDN’T STOP ME!!!”

The end

Anonymous said...

It should surprise no one that this comment in fact was left from someone residing in Madrid, Spain:

...comment removed ...
Sound a wee bit familiar?

It seems we can render all of Europe to be affected with the fem virus as of late. No land mass on earth would escape this shit forever.


Being a Spaniard and living in Spain, I can't avoid agreeing on that. My country has been taken by the feminist virus.

It's amazing how, in some 20 years, Spanish women have changed from being the most traditional in Europe (loving wives and mothers) to the most feminist bitches in the whole continent (ever-nagging harpies wanting to strip all your assets in divorce).

I have a lot of friends whose lives have been destroyed by a über-feminist Spanish woman.

This only proves the herd mentality in women. When Spanish media told women to be very religious and submissive, they did it. Now that Spanish media glorifies the entitled harpy, every women want to be more entitled than her neighbour.

Also the divorce laws have been important in this change. But Spanish men (traditionally known for being über-manginas) are slowly realizing the marriage trap and the number of marriages is slowly falling. And it is not rare to see spinsters. I remember that, when I was a child, the number of spinsters was tiny, almost unexistent (for example, I knew none).

It seems to me that some world powers want to destroy families in order to control us better. So feminism is the Troy horse which use to do that.

Anonymous said...

Also the divorce laws have been important in this change. But Spanish men (traditionally known for being über-manginas ) are slowly realizing the marriage trap and the number of marriages is slowly falling. And it is not rare to see spinsters. I remember that, when I was a child, the number of spinsters was tiny, almost unexistent (for example, I knew none).

Feminists tend to say that spanish men are machos, male supremacists, not manginas.

Make divorce ilegal and the problem is gone.

Anonymous said...

Well, I am the Spaniard guy again.

Feminists tend to say that spanish men are machos, male supremacists, not manginas.

This is easy to explain.

Spanish men (from Spain, in Europe) --> über-manginas (there are no words to describe how manginas they are).

Hispanic men = Latino men = Men from Latin America (which is the part of the Americas who speaks Spanish language because it was conquered by Spain)
---> machos

I am Spanish but I have lived 9 years in Latin America, so I know what I am talking about.

The problem is, in English, Spanish and Hispanic can be easily confused. Often the term "Spanish" is used when "Hispanic" should be used.

Both cultures speak the same language but they are far different. Spanish culture is way closer to European culture than to Latin American culture.

Stephen said...

hmh, you mentioned television ruining women. That is so true. In 1980 television was introduced to an Eskimo village in Alaska. Within 15 years divorce skyrocketed, along with crime, illegitimate kids, eating disorders and all the present ills of society that we face. In the late 1980's the same television experiment took place on a South Sea island. The same results.Television went big time in America in the early 1950's. 15 years later (1967) hippies and the sexual revolution exploded. Too much television ruins marriages, morals and causes crime to rise. I don't watch t.v. anymore. There's nothing but male-bashing and feminist indoctrination on it anyway.

Seb from Sydney, AUSTRALIA said...

As I guy who regularly uses whores, I found many of the female comments to this newspaper article, to be hopelessly out of touch with reality.

Contrary to what the feminist dominated media would like to you to believe, most guys who go to brothels are not sleazy perverted losers. All the whores I speak to all unanimously agree that the vast majority of their clients are MARRIED MEN!!!

Me, personally I have tried to establish normal relationships with western women. But the fact that I am a below average looking guy, not to mention a nice guy, means that western women will not even give me the time of day. Basically, unless you meet the impossibly high expectations of your typical western woman, she will reject you instantly (and I speak from personal experience).

Some people say whores can be expensive, and this can be true. But compared to what a divorced man has to pay (eg.loss of house,assets,on going child support etc), hookers work out much cheaper.

Anonymous said...

I don't understand how the Times site chooses which comments to display. I mean, here we have barely literate series of insults from some daft cow and one obvious sockpuppet, yet when I take some time to write a level-headed reply to any article it never sees the light of day.

Rob said...

I don't know about the safety of seeing call girls but I will say some men are in danger of getting an STD by having unprotected sex with their cheating wife. Additionally, the women you quoted claims screwing a call girl is like screwing a cave. A cheating wife is not much different from this so called "cave". I don't know how it is in Britian but in the US a cheating wife is always portrayed as a caring and mistreated women (as opposed to a cheating husband who is portrayed as a self centerd jerk). Its ironic that the same women who insult call girls usually try to defend a cheating wife. What hypocrites! My January post on the blog "Antifeminist Models" http://sxmodels.blogspot.com/ is about the BS portrayal of cheating wives.

Tom said...

I can bear witness to the fact that at least some forums WANT to destroy any discussion that puts feminism in an unfavorable light, ESPECIALLY any such discussion that can prove it.

This is sufficient evidence for me that feminism has no real credibility and that those who push it know this.

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